Oh. Hello. I Now Live In Italy ??
Lean experiments aren’t just for startups.
In 2013, I made a big decision. I decided that I was not going to spend the rest of my life living in Montreal, where I had grown up.
I had no idea where to move, so I made a plan to find my new hometown.
Here’s how it went…
What to Test and How to Test
The easiest city to test from Montreal was New York.
It’s near. It’s a great city. There are a ton of opportunities there.
I had loved it as a tourist, but… tourists rarely get the full city experience.
To get a true feel of the city, I had to experience it like a local.
For the two weeks I was there, I…
- Got up at regular hours
- Took public transit to work (coffee shops :D)
- Finished work around 7pm
- Ate at local joints
- Joined friends at happy hours
- Went to local bars/activities
- Yelled at taxis
- Got locked out of my apartment…
All normal stuff… ?
New York is a great place; 5 years before, it would have been ideal…
At 33, however, the city’s pace wasn’t quite what I was looking for. I couldn’t see myself living there long term.
(Note: New York is where I finished editing the first edition of Lean B2B)
Expanding the Search
The next few years, I ran more experiments. I spent time in:
- San Francisco
All great cities. But none of them felt “right” for me at the time.
In parallel, I was getting pretty settled in Montreal.
I had a great job, a great girlfriend, and it felt like maybe living in Montreal wouldn’t be such a bad thing. It is a city most people enjoy after all…
Feeling the drive to travel, I planned a long (8 month) trip for 2017…
It was a simple plan: Do the trip then return.
But that’s not exactly how things went…
Midway through the trip, my girlfriend left me.
Suddenly, there were no plans… so, I made some.
During the trip, I got to test a few more cities (Hong Kong, Buenos Aires, Hanoi), which reinforced my belief: It was clear I wanted to move.
It was not a new thing. I had been wanting to move since I was 12.
Now, I had a method, and I could work from anywhere.
In September 2017, I double-downed on my search. I had always been curious of the Estonian startup scene, so I decided to start there.
I lived 6 weeks in Tallinn ??, then spent 5 weeks in Budapest, then Georgia… then… then… then….
The more I travelled, the clearer my criteria were becoming.
However, I wasn’t finding what I was looking for. And more and more, I felt like I didn’t want to travel forever, but…
I kept exploring… Serbia, Ukraine, Romania… and then the pandemic hit.
A Forced Stop
At the time, I had just landed in Lithuania ??.
Suddenly, I couldn’t travel. I was stuck in Vilnius; it was clear that I couldn’t keep doing this forever.
I had enough “data”.
I knew I wanted to be more central. I wanted to learn a local language I could use. I wanted to keep some of the excitements of travelling. I wanted to be able to get accepted by a community. I wanted to find a great fit for both my business, and my personal life.
On a whim, I looked up the requirements for Italian citizenship.
My great grand-father had left Italy in 1912. There was no way I would qualify… except… I did. ?
It took 11 months to collect all the information needed to apply. 2 weeks to get citizenship. 8 months to get the passaporto…
6 weeks later, I was in ?Rome, Italy ready to start a new life.
The Start of a New Life… In Italy
Canada is great. Montreal is great. But different people seek different things in life.
I’m very excited for my future in Italy… but also to be able to start a life that involves a bit less travel.
I realize that this is a very privileged experience.
I feel very fortunate having had the opportunity to 1) experiment, and 2) be accepted by a great new country.
Now starts the hard work: becoming a real citizen, and contributing to the success of my new country.
? Ciao, from Italy.