Realize there’s no one else

What do you do if you need to make a big life-changing decision?

Perhaps some research, you look at previous situations, read, ask colleagues and friends, consult experts, create decision charts to weigh the good and the bad… but, even after that, you realize that no one has the answer.

More information becomes too much information. Your opinion shifted 3 times and you still haven’t decided. What do you do?

You can look for help to make an informed decision but no one will make the decision for you. No one will quit your job, propose to your girlfriend or buy that big house. In the end, you’re always alone with life’s big decisions. Realize this; don’t expect someone else to make your decisions. Trust yourself.

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